LearningTip #28:
Use Books, Activities, and Experiences to
Help Children
Develop an Attitude of Gratitude

By Joyce Melton Pagés, Ed.D.
President of KidBibs, Mother of two children, & Middle School Instructional Specialist

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My Book of Thanks by B.G. Hennessy

Little Thank You's by Allan Benjamin

Feeling Thankful by Shelley Rotner

The Circle of Thanks: Native American Poems and Songs of Thanksgiving
by Joseph Bruhac

The Book of Giving:  Poems of Thanks, Praise, and Celebration   
by Kay Chorao          

The Coat of Many Colors by Dolly Parton

Evan's Corner by Elizabeth Starr Hill

Grandpa's Hammer: A Habitat for Humanity Book by Ronald Kidd.

Home:   A Collaboration of Thirty Distinguished Authors and Illustrators
of Children's Books to Aid the Homeless

by Michael J. Rosen, Editor

Squanto and the Miracle of Thanksgiving by Eric Metaxas

Samuel Eaton's Day: A Day in the Life of a Pilgrim Boy
by Kate Waters

Sarah Morton's Day: A Day in the Life of a Pilgrim Girl
by Kate Waters

Tapenum's Day: A Wampanoag Indian Boy in Pilgrim Times
by Kate Waters

Cranberry Thanksgiving by Wende Develin

Thank you.  Gracias.  Danke Toda.  Merci.  Grazie.  ArigatoSalamut.  Spasibo.  Dank u.  Dankie.    These are simple words in almost any language (English, Spanish, German, Hebrew, French, Italian, Japanese, Tagalog, Russian, and Dutch respectively).   Manners are often easier to teach than an attitude of gratitude when children are growing up in an environment of comfort and safety.

But, there are things that parents and teachers can do to help children develop a sense of gratitude during the Thanksgiving season and throughout the year.  Children's books and activities can help children develop an understanding of the plight of others.  Discussions and experiences can help children develop a sense of thankfulness for the things they have.  Further, these experiences can help children develop a sense of meaningful compassion that can ultimately guide their behavior, decisions, and priorities.

Parent Activities

Teacher Activities

Books about Being Grateful

Books that Could Develop Gratitude and an Attitude of Giving

Books about Pilgrims, Indians, and the First Thanksgiving in the U.S.

Other Books about Thanksgiving

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Parent Activities

1.  Notice and appreciate the little things that your child does.  Show him/her how to appreciate the little things.

2.  "Adopt" a family or an angel (from an Angel Tree) and shop with your child to buy gifts and food for him/her/them.

3.  Provide opportunities for your child to give to others less fortunate. Visit a nursing home on a regular basis or volunteer with your child in a food bank, soup kitchen, etc.

4.  Read children's books about gratitude.  Talk about the things that you and your family are grateful for.

5.  Read children's books about children who have faced challenges in their daily livesHelp your child identify things that s/he is grateful for.  Also, have your child talk about the strategies that the story character uses to handle his/her situation. 

6.  Have your child write a book about gratitude.  The title could be "I'm thankful for many things." Then each page of the book could have pictures and/or writing about something that your child is grateful for.

7.  Help your child make a "gratitude mobile" for his/her room.  S/he can picture or write the things that s/he is grateful for on pieces of poster board or construction paper.  These pictures/words can be laminated or covered with clear contact paper.  A hole-punch and yarn enable the child to hang the pictures/words from a hanger or triangular frame.  Having this hang from a light, rack, ceiling, doorway, etc. can help the child be reminded of how fortunate s/he is.

8.  Have your child make a "gratitude poster."  Have your child use markers, crayons, or chalk to decorate a large sheet of paper.  Have him/her choose where to mount it in his/her room to serve as a constant reminder of how fortunate s/he is.

9.  Become a foster family.  In addition to giving a foster child a good home, this can help your child learn how to help others, relate to others from different backgrounds, and develop an appreciation for what s/he has.

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Teacher Activities

1.  Have your students brainstorm the things they're grateful for.  Then have them identify categories that exist within the brainstormed words.  Group terms together in the form of a semantic map.  Then guide your students toward generating a generalization about gratitude and their lives. Their categories might be: family, home, toys, other.   Their generalization might be something like, "We all have many things to be grateful for."

2.  Read a book about children who face difficulties on a daily basis.  Have your students discuss the challenges and strategies that the child faces. 

3.  During the Thanksgiving season, read about Pilgrims.  Complete a data chart that will enable the children to compare their shelter, food, toys, chores, etc. with those of the Pilgrims.  The data chart is explained in LearningTips article #26.

4.  Following a discussion about things they're grateful for, have children make a big book.  This book could be presented to another class.  If desired, the book could be taken apart later and children could take their former book page, now "gratitude" posters home.

5.  Have your class write a gratitude song to the tune of a familiar song.  LearningTip #5 has some ideas for doing this.  This would be a nice song to include in a Thanksgiving program, Mother's Day program, or Father's Day program.

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The following books are linked to Amazon.com for convenient, secure on-line purchase if desired.

Books about Being Grateful

My Book of Thanks by B.G. Hennessy

Little Thank You's by Allan Benjamin

Feeling Thankful by Shelley Rotner

The Book of Giving:  Poems of Thanks, Praise, and Celebration by Kay Chorao

The Circle of Thanks:  Native American Poems and Songs of Thanksgiving by Joseph Bruchac

I'm Thankful Each Day! by P.K. Hallinan

Old Winter by Judith Benet Richardson

Thank You by Mary Engelbreit

Thank You, God by Sally Anne Conan

The Child's World of Thankfulness by Janet McDonnell

 

 

 

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Books that Could Develop Gratitude and an Attitude of Giving

The Coat of Many Colors by Dolly Parton.  A description of Dolly Parton's childhood patchwork coat provides the context for understanding her poor, but happy and loving family.

The Rag Coat by Lauren A. Mills.  Eight-year-old Minna is teased at school because the coat she wears is made of rags.  When her classmates learn that the coat was made from pieces of their childhood, their attitudes change.

Evan's Corner by Elizabeth Starr Hill.  Evan's family of eight lives in a two-room apartment.  Though crowded and lacking privacy, Evan's mother lets him choose a corner to decorate and make his own.

Papa Piccolo by Carol Talley.  A free-spirited tomcat adopts two orphaned kittens and shares his strength with those who are smaller, younger, and weaker.

Chicken Soup for Little Souls:  The Braids Girl by Lisa McCourt.   While helping her grandpa in a homeless shelter, Izzy meets the Braids Girl who only wants to be accepted.  Izzy learns several important lessons.

How Many Days to America?  A Thanksgiving Story by Eve Bunting.  After the police come, a family is forced to flee their Caribbean island and set ail for America in a small fishing boat.

December by Eve Bunting.  Simon and his mother live in a cardboard box.  They share their box and Simon shares one of his only two cookies with another homeless person.  The next Christmas finds Simon's mother employed and the two living in an apartment.

Grandpa's Hammer: A Habitat for Humanity Book by Ronald Kidd.  After the death of his wife, a young girl's grandfather loses interest in life until he observes volunteers building a home for Habitat for Humanity.

Fly Away Home by Eve Bunting.  Andrew and his father live in an airport.  He and his father use several strategies to avoid being noticed.

The Lady in the Box by Ann McGovern.  Ben and his sister deliver food and a warm scarf to a homeless woman in spite of their mother's admonition to never talk to strangers.  Spanish edition.

Gettin' Through Thursday by Melrose Cooper.  Thursday is pay day and report card day.  Andre earned good grades but he's concerned about how his mother will pay for the party she promised if he earned good grades.

Homeless by Bernard Wolf.  Photographs of Mikey and his family depict their difficulty finding affordable housing and dealing with other economic pressures in New York City.

Song of the Trees by Mildred D. Taylor.  Cassie's father has gone to Louisiana for a job while a lumber company tries to destroy the ancestral trees that surround their home.  This black family fights prejudice and poverty in Depression-era Mississippi.

Tess by H.J. Hutchins.  Life is hard in a shack on the Canadian prairie.  Tess collects cow dung for fuel.  A brave act wins a haughty neighbor's respect.

Peace and Bread: The Story of Jane Addams by Stephanie Sammartino McPherson.  Jane Addams, a wealthy refined woman, founds Hull House, a community center in a poor, dangerous Chicago neighborhood.

Raising the Roof: A Habitat for Humanity Book by Ronald Kidd.  Until a young boy understands what they are doing, he is upset that his special Saturdays change when his parents begin volunteering for Habitat for Humanity.

Uncle Willie and the Soup Kitchen by Dyanne Disalvo-Ryan.  A young boy helps his uncle in a soup kitchen and learns about the importance of helping less fortunate people.

Home:  A Collaboration of Thirty Distinguished Authors and Illustrators of Children's Books to Aid the Homeless by Michael J. Rosen, Editor

 

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Books about Pilgrims, Indians, and the First Thanksgiving in the United States

Squanto and the Miracle of Thanksgiving by Eric Metaxas

Thanksgiving is for Giving Thanks by Margaret Sutherland

The First Thanksgiving by Jean Craighead George

On the Mayflower:  Voyage of the Ship's Apprentice and a Passenger Girl by Kate Waters

Samuel Eaton's Day: A Day in the Life of a Pilgrim Boy by Kate Waters

Sarah Morton's Day: A Day in the Life of a Pilgrim Girl by Kate Waters

Tapenum's Day: A Wampanoag Indian Boy in Pilgrim Times by Kate Waters

Sarah Anne Hartford:  Massachusetts, 1651 by Kathleen Duey

Squanto: Friend of the Pilgrims by Clyde Robert Bulla

Landing of the Pilgrims by James Daugherty

Corn is Maize: The Gift of the Indians by Aliki

Three Young Pilgrims by Cheryl Harness

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Other Books about Thanksgiving

Cranberry Thanksgiving by Wende Develin

The Tasty Thanksgiving Feast (flapbook for babies and toddlers by Suzy Jane Tanner)

What is Thanksgiving? (flapbook) by Harriet Ziebert

Winnie the Pooh's Thanksgiving  Bruce Talkington

Clifford's Thanksgiving Visit by Norman Bridwell

Arthur's Thanksgiving by Marc Brown

Gracias, The Thanksgiving Turkey by Joy Cowley  Spanish Edition

Molly's Pilgrim by Barbara Cohen.  

A Strawbeater's Thanksgiving by Irene Smalls

A Turkey for Thanksgiving by Eve Bunting  Book and Audio cassette